How to Properly Masturbate a Penis: Techniques to Help Him Reach Orgasm by Hand

It might seem that no one knows hand pleasures better than virtual sex enthusiasts, but it’s not quite that simple—and we’re not just talking about virt here. As a rule, partners often forget about hand pleasures and prefer oral sex instead. That’s a mistake, since hand stimulation can offer just as much pleasure as oral or traditional sex.

This type of touch is also great for trying something new, or when you want to satisfy your partner but aren’t ready for full bodily contact yourself for whatever reason. The key here is not to forget lubricant. You can use specialized lubricants, body oils, or regular body cream. If you want to heighten the sensations, grab a specialty lube with a tingling effect.

Start by applying a small amount of lubricant to your hands. Rub them together to warm it up, then slowly slide your hand from the base of the penis to the head. Pay close attention to your partner and read his reactions: if he arches toward your movements, you’re doing everything right, so keep going. Next, without stopping, use your thumb to locate the frenulum on his penis and rhythmically slide your finger over it. This will give your partner unforgettable sensations that will definitely show on his face.

Don’t forget to use your other hand to caress his erogenous zones. Most men enjoy having their testicles touched—try gently stroking them while continuing to stroke the penis with your other hand. Some men like it when their testicles are not only stroked, but also gently squeezed or tugged; if your partner enjoys this, he will certainly let you know. Some men also love having their prostate stimulated at the same time. If your partner is into that, be prepared—this combination delivers intense pleasure.

You can also use both hands to stroke him, and there are several techniques for this. Apply lubricant to both hands, interlock your fingers, and slide your hands up and down the penis, gently squeezing and releasing your palms as you move. Alternatively, gently cup the head of the penis with one hand and make circular motions, while using the other hand to continue stroking from the base to the tip. You can also grip the penis with both hands from the bottom up and stroke vigorously.

Ultimately, the best way to find out what your partner really likes is simply to ask him. Ask him to masturbate in front of you—this won’t just show you which technique he prefers, but it will also spark plenty of desire. Don’t just be a spectator: place your hand over his to feel his tempo, grip pressure, and speed. He’s bound to love it. Continue masturbating together until he moves his hands away and leaves his penis entirely at your disposal.

This knowledge is useful for any partner, but it’s especially handy for webcam models, who need to master these techniques to offer services like masturbation instruction, control, and other customized content.