How to properly perform cunnilingus. And what you need to know about it.

Very often, cunnilingus is a part of foreplay before sexual intercourse, but frequently it can also be a full sexual act; it all depends on your preferences and inspiration. Have you never performed cunnilingus before and are just getting ready to pleasure your partner? Don’t worry, you’ll do fine; it doesn’t require special knowledge or mastering a special technique. Just don’t try to do everything like you saw in porn; it’s better to simply listen to your partner so you understand what she likes and what she doesn’t.

What is cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is a type of caress during which a partner stimulates a woman’s genitals with their tongue and lips. Many women achieve orgasm specifically from such caresses. During cunnilingus, the most attention is paid to the clitoris—this is the most sensitive part of the vulva, and its stimulation brings the greatest pleasure. Outwardly, the clitoris looks very small, but it is precisely within it that nerve endings are concentrated, giving so much pleasure.

Where to start
Don’t rush; before starting oral caresses, begin with kisses, caressing other parts of the body, and make sure to pay attention to the breasts. Observe the woman’s body and her reaction—this will let you know when it’s time to move lower.

Experiment with the speed and pressure of the caresses to understand what exact rhythm your partner enjoys. By carefully observing her body language, you will understand when you have found the necessary rhythm. If the clitoris is covered and, of course, your partner doesn’t mind, you can uncover the glans of the clitoris by pushing aside the hood covering it with your tongue. It is worth remembering that not all women like direct stimulation of the clitoris. If your partner is just like that, you should try another technique: stimulating with the tongue in circular movements clockwise or counterclockwise, or trying these movements up and down.

Immersion of the tongue into the vagina—or penetration, as it is commonly called—will also bring your partner a lot of pleasure, as there are many nerve endings there. To diversify the process, you can switch pleasure zones from the vagina to the clitoris and back. You can additionally incorporate a vibrator into your pleasures; the woman can guide it herself and choose the optimal speed for her.

Most comfortable positions for cunnilingus
Position 69, pleasure for both partners: Here everything is quite simple: one of the partners lies on their back and the other on top, of course with genitals facing the face. In such a position, it is convenient for both partners to simultaneously stimulate each other’s genitals using lips and tongue. If this is inconvenient, you can try it lying on your side; the main thing is that you can simultaneously stimulate each other’s genitals.

Doggy style (on all fours): The most revealing position for cunnilingus. In this position, your partner is on her knees in the well-known position. Because of this, she can regulate the pressure applied to the partner’s tongue and lips.

Sitting on the face: In this position, you lie on your back and your partner squats on your face. Thus, lying on your back, you can stimulate her genitals with your tongue and lips while she sets the pace by moving her pelvis.

On the back: The simplest position for cunnilingus, which we recommend starting with. In this position, your partner lies on her back, and you lie in front of her, stimulating her genitals with your tongue and lips. Many partners like to wrap their legs around the partner’s head so that he has more access to the vagina and, of course, to the clitoris itself. If this is inconvenient for you, you can suggest that your partner lie on a table or a couch so that you can kneel in front of her, and she, in turn, can throw her legs over your shoulders.

Orgasm from oral sex
Orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal, the climax a person feels during a sexual act. Physiologically, this can be described as muscle contraction and instant tension relief accompanied by accelerated heartbeat and breathing.

Orgasms vary, as do degrees of pleasure from sex. The path to orgasm typically goes through communication, experimenting with the body, caresses, and touches. Complete immersion in the process will allow you to experience an unforgettable orgasm. During an orgasm, your physical pleasure grows, and psychological pleasure grows along with it. You can see for yourself, or may have already experienced, that after prolonged communication with our virtual girls, the orgasm is much stronger and longer. All this is thanks to the fact that they can relax you through communication via webcam.

How to improve your experience in oral sex

Choose only those partners you genuinely like and with whom oral sex will bring you pleasure.

In the process, don’t forget to listen to your mind and body.

Do not refuse your partner if they ask you for something during sexual intercourse, and ask them to do something you like as well. This way, sex will bring more pleasure and experience.

Choose positions that bring you the greatest pleasure. Explore your body independently to find out what you like more. Such explorations are a completely safe and healthy way to learn more about yourself and your feelings.

Is oral sex full sexual intercourse?
Yes, oral sex can be considered full sexual intercourse. Of course, it is impossible to get pregnant from it, but catching sexually transmitted infections is entirely possible. Among the most common diseases that can be contracted during oral sex are human papillomavirus, herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis, acquired immunodeficiency syndrome, and human immunodeficiency virus.

However, the use of barrier methods reduces the risk of infection, allowing us to engage in oral sex without thinking about diseases and only getting pleasure from it. At the same time, don’t forget to get tested for sexually transmitted infections once a year. If you have more than one sexual partner, such testing is recommended more frequently.

Rules to follow to make oral sex safe
Mandatory hygiene
Of course, before intimacy, it is advisable to take a bath or at least a shower. This will help you avoid unpleasant sensations and completely relax to enjoy the process. As for the mouth, it’s better not to brush your teeth right before oral sex, as this can cause tiny gum bleeding that could become a cause of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. To make your breath fresher in such a case, it’s better to use mouthwash or mint gum.

Is it true that oral sex is safer than anal or vaginal?
If we are talking strictly about sexually transmitted diseases, it is definitely very hard to make a definitive statement here. As a rule, people who engage in oral sex also engage in vaginal, and sometimes anal sex. But if we talk about the risks of unwanted pregnancy, then, of course, oral sex is safer than vaginal sex.